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Refuel Life Trauma Center, PLLC | Compassionate Healing for Complex Trauma
Compassionate trauma therapy focused on healing early attachment wounds. Find your path to self-trust & healthy relationships
Compassionate trauma therapy focused on healing early attachment wounds. Find your path to self-trust & healthy relationships
I specialize in healing attachment wounds and childhood trauma. Together, we'll work through emotional patterns that no longer serve you, rebuild your sense of self-worth, and create the meaningful relationships you deserve. I'm here to guide you toward deep, lasting healing.
Are you ready to heal from:
• Childhood Emotional Neglect
• Mother Wounds
• Abandonment Trauma
• Complex PTSD
• Intergenerational Trauma
• Suicide Prevention and Resources
Now accepting private-pay clients in Virginia
Trauma shapes how we view ourselves, our relationships, and the world around us. Whether you're struggling with:
• Persistent anxiety and hypervigilance
• Difficulty maintaining relationships
• Overwhelming emotions or emotional numbness
• Chronic feelings of emptiness
• A sense of being "different" or "broken"
• Recurring patterns of self-sabotage
You're not alone, and healing is possible.
Our approach combines evidence-based trauma therapies with deep emotional attunement. As certified trauma specialists, we offer:
• EMDR (Eye-Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing)
• Brainspotting
• Neurcognitive Body Work
• Neurofeedback
• Biofeedback
• Somatic Experiencing
• Internal Family Systems Parts Work
• Attachment-Based Approaches
• Mind-Body Integration
• Childhood Emotional Neglect
• Complex PTSD
• Mother Wound Recovery
• Abandonment Trauma
• Intergenerational Trauma
• Suicide Ideation and Recovery
We are a group of nationally board certified licensed therapists who provide quality mental health care by combining the science of trauma treatment with genuine human connection. Together, we'll move at your pace, respecting your nervous system's need for safety while gently challenging old survival patterns that no longer serve you.
Our office is conveniently located in Chesapeake. Can't make it into the office? No worries- we've got you covered with teletherapy.
All your appointments will take place in our soothing office environment with fully private rooms, complimentary coffe, tea and water, and individualized care.
We believe trauma healing happens in relationships where you feel truly seen, heard, and understood. As trauma specialists, we know that every person's journey is unique, and healing isn't one-size-fits-all.
Our approach combines the science of trauma treatment with genuine human connection. Together, we'll move at your pace, respecting your nervous system's need for safety while gently challenging old survival patterns that no longer serve you.
What Sets Our Approach Apart:
Bottom-Up Processing
We'll work with both your mind and body to address trauma where it's stored – in your nervous system. This helps create lasting change, not just temporary relief.
Attachment-Focused
Many trauma survivors learned early that the world wasn't safe. In our work together, you'll experience what it feels like to be fully accepted and supported, helping rewire these early lessons.
Integration-Based
Rather than just managing symptoms, we'll work to integrate fragmented parts of yourself, helping you feel whole and connected to your authentic self.
Culturally Responsive
Your unique background, beliefs, and experiences matter. I provide culturally sensitive care that honors your whole identity and lived experience.
What You Can Expect:
• A safe space to process at your own pace
• Clear explanations of how trauma affects your brain and body
• Practical tools for emotional regulation
• Support in setting healthy boundaries
• Guidance in reconnecting with your authentic self
• Regular progress check-ins and adjustment of our approach as needed
Our role isn't to "fix" you – you're not broken. Instead, We're here to walk alongside you as you reconnect with your innate capacity for healing and growth.
Contact us today to schedule an appointment or learn more about our services. Our team is always here to answer your questions and help you make informed decisions about your healing journey.
"Refuel Life Trauma Center helped me find a therapist that I connected with, whose services aligned with my needs, and who was flexible with their scheduling. Refuel Life helped me check off all the boxes."
-REFUEL LIFE TRAUMA CENTER CLIENT
"They say the darkest nights produce the brightest stars. My own journey to healing began with a simple step - a visit to Dani Murphy, a counselor who transformed the way I carried my shadows. Her gentle, holistic approach, blending therapy with body work, mended parts of me I feared were broken forever. If you're feeling overwhelmed, lost, or just need someone to talk to, Dani might just be the beacon you need. Trust me, take that step towards finding your light. Experience the healing and see for yourself how Dani Murphy can change your life. "
-REFUEL LIFE TRAUMA CENTER CLIENT
"Hey everyone, quick storytime. Last year, I was going through a really rough patch. Depression had me feeling like I was stuck in this dark tunnel with no light in sight. That's when I found Dani Murphy, a licensed professional counselor in Chesapeake. Her unique approach combining body work in trauma therapies honestly changed my life. Session with her helped me heal and find light again. If you're feeling lost, trust me, reach out to Refuel Life Trauma Center. They transform lives. It might work for you too. "
-REFUEL LIFE TRAUMA CENTER CLIENT
Please reach us at contact@traumacenterva.com if you cannot find an answer to your question.
While everyone's experience is unique, common signs include:
• Recurring relationship patterns
• Difficulty with emotions or emotional numbness
• Persistent anxiety or depression
• Feeling "stuck" despite previous therapy
• Physical symptoms without medical cause
Trauma therapy specifically addresses how traumatic experiences impact your nervous system, relationships, and daily functioning. Unlike traditional talk therapy, trauma therapy:
• Uses body-based approaches to address nervous system responses
• Focuses on creating safety before processing trauma
• Incorporates specialized techniques like EMDR and Somatic Experiencing
• Works with implicit memories and body sensations
• Emphasizes the role of the nervous system in healing
• Moves at a pace that prevents overwhelm and retraumatization
Healing from trauma is a unique journey for each person. While some clients notice improvements within a few months, deep healing typically takes longer. Factors that influence the length of therapy include:
• The complexity and duration of trauma exposure
• Your current support system and resources
• Your nervous system's capacity for change
• Previous therapy experiences
• Current life stressors
• Your goals for therapy
We'll regularly review your progress and adjust our approach as needed.
• Longer sessions when needed
• Freedom to use the most effective treatment approaches
• No requirement for a mental health diagnosis
• Complete confidentiality without insurance records
• Flexibility to focus on deep healing rather than symptom management
• More time dedicated to your care rather than insurance paperwork
Yes, Refuel Life Trauma Center, PLLC accepts most major insurance plans. Please contact us for more information.
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Mon | 09:00 am – 05:00 pm | |
Tue | 09:00 am – 05:00 pm | |
Wed | 09:00 am – 05:00 pm | |
Thu | 09:00 am – 05:00 pm | |
Fri | 09:00 am – 05:00 pm | |
Sat | By Appointment | |
Sun | Closed |